Find five or ten minutes today that belong to him alone, not because someone asked, not as a task, but because you want to give them. Sit in the quiet, read today's reading slowly, or simply tell him where you actually are.

If you feel like you're starting this morning with barely any oil, that's fine, it's just a beginning: every small moment like this is already oil for tomorrow's lamp. Whatever you plant in these few minutes, you'll harvest it exactly when you need it most.